Today, I choose to use the pronouns He/They. This decision comes from deep reflection about how I move through the world—physically, spiritually, and energetically.

As a designer, realtor, and longtime Asheville resident, I’ve often found myself wondering what our city might look and feel like if we had taken a different path. One less shaped by the sprawling, car-dominated models of American cities like Charlotte—and more by the pedestrian-first, sustainability-minded approach of European cities like Copenhagen.

Since moving to Asheville in 2006, the River Arts District (RAD) has been a cornerstone of my creative journey and the community of friends I've built both personally and professionally. When Helene left, taking with them many works from my peers and my own, it left us all wondering how we could contribute and give back.

Their bravery is not only worthy of admiration—it’s deeply instructive. It challenges us to reflect on our own transformations, both big and small. None of us are fixed beings. We are all in a constant process of becoming. In that light, aren’t we all engaged in some form of transition? Could we begin to see ourselves as part of a shared journey of change and growth? In a broader sense, aren’t we all, in some way, “trans-something”? I certainly hope so.

Renovating my 1950s Cottage Main Bath: Challenges and Solutions.

It all begins with an idea.

Mid Life. Mid World. Donning a new black while looking for a new light.